What is success? When I was younger success was easier to define. Good job. Own your own home. But now it's more difficult for me. I think it comes down to making peace with your viewpoint of the concept of "God."
God is such a loaded topic. God is a business in our current world. You have to look outside the culture. Look outside the matrix.
God is source. God is neither male or female but in both in balance. God is energy, vibration. God will not drain you of who you are. God will not use you for gain.
How do you make peace with God? That is the question, my friends.