Hair is an ongoing issue. My hair is too curly to be straight and to straight to be curly. I did the whole '80s thing with the perms and hair dye. I've had spiral perms, highlights, lowlights, straightening conditioners and basically I am over it.
I quit perming and dying my hair ten or so years ago. Now I'm about 25% grey. I call it natural silver sparkle highlights. I'm not good friends with the flat iron straightener either. I burned my ear, forehead, and toe. I dropped it, okay?
Perhaps I shouldn't have chosen to live in a city with 90% humidity 90% of the year if I wanted obedient hair. So if you see me today, don't judge me by my hair. It is having a bad day.